Saturday, June 26, 2010

Kid's Quotes

Meg: My clothes are on backwards
Me: (looking her over) Your clothes are not on backwards
Meg: It's an expression

Meg: I don't like Sesame Street
Me: Why not?
Meg: It's not entertainable for me

Henry: Knock Knock
Me: Who's there?
Henry: Apple
Me: Apple who?
Henry: Chomp chomp!

Meg: Dad, come see this! (pointing at infomercial on TV)
Me: What is it?
Meg: The Couch Coaster is cool!
Me: Why, because your can put your drinks in it?
Meg: Or your donuts, or whatever. I want one. [The commercial definitely does not show donuts in the Couch Coaster]

Henry: (whenever I walk in from work, or being away) Mom! (with his arms stretched out to me [I'm his dad])

Me: Where is your new toy snake?
Meg: It's in the backyard. I'll show you. (takes me to the backyard) It's over there by the tree.
Me: (Looking by the tree) No, it isn't.
Meg: Actually, it's in the shed
Me: Why is it in the shed? (taking the lock off, opening the shed, looking around) Meg, I don't see it...
Meg: (has already run inside the house and is laughing at me. The snake is definitely not outside.)

Megan: Can we get a bigger house, so we can fit more stuff that we like in it?
Me: (shaking my head sadly, feeling like a failure)

Megan has something important to tell you. I promise it's in there somewhere.


Saturday, June 19, 2010

Kim and the kids in Utah

Kim took the kids to Utah a few days before we met up in Mexico. They flew standby, and their first attempt was unsuccesful. The kids were pretty sad that Dad showed up at the airport to take them back home, after they had been promised an airplane ride to see the grandparents in Utah.


After Mexico, Kim went back to Utah to hang out while I rushed back to work and the daily grind. It looks like they had fun.































Mike and Kim didn't take the kids to Mexico

Alright, if you followed the link to Crystal's blog, you've already got the narrative from Mexico. Since Kim and I rarely get photos taken together anymore, what with two little kidlets we're juggling all the time, I thought I'd focus this post on the fact that we enjoyed our trip together.

So here are Mike and Kim without kids in Cancun in chronological order.

Enjoying the timeshare pitch


The beach off hotel row


Xelha


Sneaking into Tulum


Chichen Itza


Lunch on Isla de Mujeres


Snorkeling on Isla de Mujeres


Xplor


Special thanks to John, Suzanne, Megan, Steven, Zoe and Lincoln for making these kidless pictures possible.


P.S. This turned out to be perfect reading for the trip

Friday, June 11, 2010

We went to Mexico...

...and it was awesome.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Liberia

Between 1980 and 2003, Liberia experienced a long period of instability, military rule and civil war, which killed hundreds of thousands, left the country economically devastated and produced an entire generation of Liberians who had known nothing but war. A large women's movement, Women of Liberia Mass Action for Peace, organized Christian and Muslim women throughout the country to put pressure on the ruling regime through silent protests and sit-ins, and was instrumental in bringing about successful peace talks and an end to hostilities. In 2005, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf was elected president of Liberia, becoming the first female president of an African nation. Sirleaf in turn selected many women to serve in prominent positions within her government, including the national chief of police, minister of finance, minister of justice and minister of commerce.

Despite being the most impoverished place I have ever been, I found Liberia to be permeated with a feeling of optimism as the country moves to put behind it decades of conflict.



To find out more, check out the documentaries Pray the Devil Back to Hell and Iron Ladies of Liberia. Also, here is an interview of Madame Sirleaf on The Daily Show.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

It's Official

Henry is TWO.

The day he turned two his new favorite phrase became, "No, I do it." He is has been found standing on the toilet playing with the water from the sink. He has been found putting a whole roll of toilet paper in the toilet. He has cried in his crib for an hour and twenty minutes, refusing his nap. He has an iron will, which will not be broken. He doesn't want to be left out of anything Megan is doing. Don't feel bad that he isn't walking yet, he is getting his needs and wants met.

Inspite of all that, he is the sweetest little two year that just melts my heart. He really thinks that he is a five year old in a two year old's unmovable body. He loves being one of the kids. He loves adventure. He loves animals. He loves his Mamma. He loves music and dancing. He loves to mimic Megan. You should hear his knock knock joke. I love how he scoots to my feet and looks up at me with his big blue eyes and says "Mamma", he is smart in more ways than one.

Here is the proof that our sweet Henry became a 2 year old on April 24, 2010.



















Thursday, May 06, 2010

A Life in Grand Bassa

I had an incredible experience this week that I wanted to remember, and since this is the closest thing that I have to a journal, this is where it goes. I’ve been in Grand Bassa, Liberia since Sunday, visiting health facilities. The idea is to survey hospitals and clinics in the area to get a good sense of what difficulties they are facing in receiving and maintaining their stocks of malaria medicines, so that we can make recommendations about how to address the problems. As an outsider, I am fairly reliant on my local counterparts to come up with an appropriate sample of health facilities which will be somewhat representative. I was feeling frustrated after the first day of visits, as we had been to three facilities that were all within a ten minute walk of one another in the largest city in the region. A good portion of the population in Liberia live in rural areas, and visit their local clinics rather than come into the city to receive health treatment. These rural clinics are more likely to face difficulties in maintaining adequate provisions to service their patients. With this in mind, I felt justified pulling the obnoxious American attitude on my Liberian teammates (a woman from the National Drug Service named Suwah, and Kollie, the Head Pharmacist for the county) Tuesday morning, and asked that we cancel our visit to yet another hospital, and instead drive out of town a ways to go visit a clinic.

Our visit to Compound 3 Clinic proceeded normally, and I was just finishing up my review of the storage room when Suwah came in to mention that a child had come in that was really anemic. I didn’t pay much attention to what she said, finishing up my entries so that we could move on to the next facility, when she brought up the anemic child again. Now keep in mind, Suwah wasn’t actually telling me much about the child, nor asking me to do anything, but the fact that she brought it up twice finally got through to me – she was trying to get me to do something, but was being too polite to ask. This is a tactic I have noticed in other countries, and have been stymied by before. Americans are so direct, that it’s easy to miss the subtle gestures in other cultures. I stopped what I was doing, and asked about the child. She told me that he was a 2 year old boy that likely had severe malaria, and he needed to be transferred immediately to a hospital where they could provide better treatment. Of course, the clinic we were at was an hour or more outside of town over some pretty terrible dirt roads with very little traffic. The only other vehicles we had seen that day were motorcycles that function as taxis, carrying one or two passengers behind the driver on little 500 cc 1987 Hondas. Not ideal for patient transport. Finally I got it.

“Can’t we take him to the hospital back in Buchanan?” I asked.

“Sure, we can do that,” Suwah replied, obviously relieved, feeling that she needed my permission since my project had rented our vehicle.

When I saw the boy, I was shocked. He was naked, his eyes were open but not moving, and he was drooling down his chest. I was angry with myself for taking so long to react. His uncle hurriedly carried him into the back of our Landcruiser, and his mother climbed in with a 9 month old baby girl, and we were off. Much of the drive was spent with Suwah and Kollie harassing the mother and uncle for waiting so long to bring the little boy into the clinic. Malaria kills a million people every year, most of them under the age of 5, because until a person has lived in a malarious region long enough to build up some immunity to the parasite that causes it, the body has a more rapid and severe progression of the disease. Coupled with the fact that many kids in Africa are malnourished anyway vastly increases the chance that children under 5 will develop anemia and other complications very quickly once a fever kicks in. If the kid can get into a clinic within 24 hours of the onset of fever, the prognosis is really good. Looking into the back of the Landcruiser, I could see what the effects could be if the parent waited much longer than that.

Our driver pushed it as fast as he could over the roads, splattering mud up my arm from the open window, and we probably shaved off 15 minutes of the journey. Still, I was not feeling very optimistic. I have never seen a person look so close to death. We rushed him into the emergency room, pushing past a large crowd of people waiting for their turn with a physician, and squeezed into a 50 foot square space that housed maybe 7 beds. There was no room for goofy Americans with degrees in political science, so I stepped out, and with not much else we could do to help, we decided to go visit the other health facility on our list and come back to check on the boy when we were done.

Throughout the long drive to the next facility, and during our survey there, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Henry is two years old, and it was just devastating to me to think that that mother was going to lose her little boy. She had been unable to reach her husband to let him know, and the uncle couldn’t remain with her at the hospital for some reason. All I could think about was Kim and Henry being in that situation. The mother was obviously exhausted and struggling to juggle her sick child and her baby. I worried that her son would die and no one would be there with her, or even know where she was.

When we got back to town, we went back to the emergency room, but the staff there didn’t know which boy we were asking about. They showed us a little boy laying on a table, but I knew it wasn’t our child because he was wearing a shirt. Kollie, Suwah and I decided to head over to the pediatric ward to see if he had been moved there. On the way, Kollie told me matter of factly that the emergency room staff had told him that the boy we had just seen on the table, that I had presumed was sleeping, had just “expired” from malaria. I paused for a minute to try to cope with that, and then we entered the saddest place that I have ever been.

Over the last year and a half I have seen a lot of health clinics in Africa. I think today marked my 43rd visit, in 4 different countries. However, I’ve never before been in the pediatric ward of a major hospital over here, and everywhere I turned I encountered something else that made me well up in tears. I don’t think I want to even write the details of what I saw. Surrounded by children in pain and in visibly bad condition, having just seen a dead child and being very worried for the boy I had brought in, I was feeling pretty overwhelmed.

Down at the end of the pediatric ward, we found our boy. He was still naked, laid out on a bed receiving a blood transfusion. His eyes were closed, but other than that there didn’t seem to be much improvement. We asked a harried looking nurse for some details, and she confirmed that he had malaria, and that they were doing everything they could. The mother (Ruby) gave us the phone number for her husband (Robert) so that we could continue to try and call him. We left, and I went back to my hotel room thinking that it was pretty likely that our boy was going to end up like the other little boy that I had seen in the emergency room. I called and talked to Kim about it, and spent most of the night thinking about him.

This morning I dragged my team back to the hospital one more time as we headed out of town. I wanted to check on him again, but I really didn’t want to get bad news, so it was with some trepidation that I walked back toward the pediatric ward. I was greeted by this.



This is Maurice. He was sitting up and playing with the boy on the bed next to him. He looked totally fine. I was so happy, I thought I might just fall apart. I gave him and the other boy each a pack of smarties, and ran back out to my vehicle to get the bed net that I had been sleeping under. I gave it to the mother, but refrained from reiterating any instructions to her after the berating that she had received on the drive the day before. Mothers here know that their kids are supposed to sleep under bed nets. I also gave her some of my Clif bars, because I can’t imagine that she’d had anything to eat since before our car ride the day before. There is no food at the hospital, and she had no one else to stay with her boy and watch her daughter while she went to get something to eat.

We had work to do, so we left the hospital and finished our survey this afternoon, and I just got back to Monrovia tonight. Even though the whole point of the project I work for is to deliver malaria medicines and bed nets to Africa, this was something really tangible that I got to be involved with. I really don’t think Maurice would have made it if we hadn’t chosen to visit that particular clinic on Tuesday.

I’m so glad we did.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Forced Frost Fun-- AKA White House Easter Egg Roll 2010

Yes, it is that time of year again in Washington D.C., time to win tickets to the White House Easter Egg Roll. And these are no easy tickets to come by -- I had eight different people put their names into the egg lottery, and only one of my minions (Crystal) was lucky enough to get these golden tickets .

I was excited to go again, but Mike's view of the White House Easter Egg Roll was tarnished because he wasn't invited to have breakfast with Obama last year. But this wasn't going to stop me from going.

The Monday after Easter was the big day. Our assigned time was 11:45-1:45 and we needed to be there at 11:00 to get in line. The fact that this is right in the middle of lunch and Henry's nap didn't dissuade me -- I packed extra snacks, and I knew as long as we kept moving Henry would be fine. But the unexpected downfall of the whole event was the unseasonable high temperature and humidity.

Two hot kids waiting in the hour long line, but still (kind of) tolerating the the heat to get inside this great event.

Yay, we made it onto the White House grounds. This is where Megan's discomfort won out (we have only been here ten minutes), and she didn't think this event was as great as Mom had made it out to be. But note she is still at least trying to smile.



The famous White House Easter Egg Roll. Henry liked it, but it is hard not being able to walk. Megan was too hot to even try rolling an egg in the big race.

The Famous picture in front of the White House.
No longer even trying to to smile for the camera. Just whining about the heat.


Story time with Betty Degeneres (Ellen's mom).
I just knew the kids would love this.



This face is perfect.

The stage, with Sara Somebody

One last try for the perfect White House picture.

It's ironic this year's theme was "Ready, Set, Go," because that pretty much sums up our day.

P.S. Obama made his entrance the time frame before us. Again.

P.P.S. Thanks again, Crystal.




Friday, April 09, 2010

Mike's phone sleeps with the fishes

Optional soundtrack for this post


For Easter weekend we joined up with our friends the Browns and the Lamberts and rented a house from VRBO in Port Republic, MD. This was the view of the Chesapeake Bay from our deck.



We woke up early Saturday morning and ran down to the water. Megan was loving these binoculars.




Henry has become quite daring (reckless) lately. He just wanted to get to where the other kids were.


Meg and Henry sword fighting. Megan is pretty good, she usually whacks my fingers bloody when we do this with our firewood in the backyard.


The cabin had some sea kayaks for us to borrow, and I headed straight out to open water as soon as I could. Sadly, I was a little too excited to empty my pockets first, and my phone was lost at sea.


We had over 900 channels, but none of them were carrying conference (way to go, Comcast), so we got it through a radio app on someone's iPhone, and connected it through the TV so that we could hear the audio. We also used the iPhone to locate the churches nearest to us, and then looked on google maps for one that looked like it had a satellite dish so we could go there for the priesthood session. At this point, the opportunity to replace my lost phone with one of these handy devices was pretty appealing.


The next day we got in some more time at the beach. The weather was pretty warm, but it was still early April, so the water was not worth venturing into. Somehow, that didn't matter to Megan at all.


Henry continued his balancing tricks.


Once Megan got too cold, she decided to make herself as dirty as possible before getting back into the car.






Like the incredible mom that she is, Kim brought all kinds of great Easter things for the kids. We had a good time dyeing eggs.








The kids loved finding their Easter baskets.


Megan raced all over the yard in her bare feet, impervious to the liquid amber seed pods that were everywhere in her haste to beat out the other two year olds that were part of the easter egg hunt. She definitely won.




P.S. If you ever want me to be able to call you again, email me your phone number.